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Arnold, Please Don’t Eff the Help!

by Deborah Cruz

So, I keep seeing the headlines that Arnold Schwarzenegger has fathered a lovechild with one of the long time members of the family staff. There are so many issues with this but let’s just say he’s a politician and an actor so really, shouldn’t the real shock be that he has supposedly been monogamous for 25 years?

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As a wife and a mother, I can imagine how betrayed Maria Shriver must feel. She has supported this moron throughout his entire political career and not only has he screwed around, the asshole had a “love child” and still had the woman working for him. They say she was staff, what does that mean? Was she his cook? Maid? Official fluffer? The seriously earth shattering part, for Maria, I would imagine is that this lady has been in her house, in her life, under her nose the entire time…looking her straight in the face, lying to her..just like Arnold.

I don’t know their situation or their marriage, no one ever really knows what goes on between a couple behind closed doors. I do have a feeling that this all played out in the chronology it did for a reason. The Governorship is a thing of the past, Maria leaving his side ,while it may be emotionally incapacitating ( or not) it can no longer hurt him politically. Is he tired of the marriage? Was his conscience too much to live with the indiscretion any longer? Was he so in love with the staff member that he just needed to move forward with her? Was it guilt and obligation to the ‘lovechild’ I mean, who knows. Even the connotation of a lovechild is offensive, when you think of it in context. He was a married man, this was not just a roll in the hay. Lovechild infers that he wanted to be there, there was a relationship even an intent to procreate. How insulting and disrespectful is that to his wife, the legitimate mother of his children? I always find it selfish when a partner reveals their indiscretions because, honestly, if you are not going to keep it in your pants…the only benefit of telling your partner is to alleviate the guilt that the adulterer feels. It NEVER heals the one that’s been cheated on. So, to be clear cheating is a selfish thing and to reveal your indiscretions is just a deeper layer of betrayal and selfishness. Arnold, if you can’t be faithful, at least keep it to yourself and show a little discretion, man.

I just think it is a pretty low class move to reveal this all to the public in such a timed fashion. It makes it seem like he used her all along for her political clout, which may or may not be the case. After all, she is from a long bloodline of political powerhouses.Or he was just waiting for his term to end so that he could leave the marriage. Either way, I really hope that Maria moves forward and comes out the other end of this awful situation, stronger than ever, with at least half of his shit and makes a bold political move herself.

And Arnold, Please don’t Eff the help!

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GreenInOC 2011/05/17 - 10:51 pm

Let’s not forget she had to leave her career when he took office. He knew that she was giving up her career for his while he was deceiving her.

Truthful Mommy 2011/05/20 - 8:31 am

He knew, he didn’t care but of course, he knew. HE KNEW he was marrying a Kennedy.People make mistakes in marriage but this just seems so low rent the way it was handled.

Alex | Perfecting Dad 2011/05/18 - 8:04 am

Nasty. I don’t watch the news, but I heard about this. Too bad. At least we know that celebrities suffer from the same stats as us commoners. For some reason I always thought Arnie and California loved family values. Maybe they’re just about being green and social programs.

I like how you said he’s just a politician so no shock that he’s a cheater. You got that right!

Truthful Mommy 2011/05/20 - 9:29 am

Its really sad that I almost expect it form celebrities and politicians. VEry very sad.

A Mommy in the City 2011/05/18 - 9:57 am

I was so shocked to hear this. I thought that they were separated because of their differences ( I always thought they were an odd couple), but to hear this is just sad. Some men are such pigs.

Krysta MacGray 2011/05/18 - 10:24 am

This is just wrong on so many levels. I’m sad.

Jess@Straight Talk 2011/05/18 - 1:28 pm

This whole mess was jacked! I guess he figured since he can never run for president he has nothing to lose.

Carri 2011/05/18 - 9:22 pm

What a douchecanoe. I couldn’t imagine being lied to like that for so long. It would be bad enough if the chick was a hot, one time fling. But to cheat for years with a woman who looks like THAT? A woman that’s been a “trusted” employee for 20 years? UGH.

GreenInOC 2011/05/19 - 10:30 pm

“…to cheat for years with a woman that looks like THAT?”

Under different circumstances if we learned that she was fired from her job for looking like “that”, we would all be up in arms about how everyone is beautiful, has something to offer, beauty come from within, etc…

Why attack each other (women vs. women) on such vulnerable levels that have NOTHING to do with anything?

Truthful Mommy 2011/05/20 - 12:28 am

what she looks like should be unimportant.Its not what she looked like..its what he wanted to do with her. He abused their working relationship.He’s a pig.period.

Addicted2Shius 2011/05/19 - 1:25 pm

I couldn’t even believe it when I heard it. It made me so sad fir her to know that all these years she stood by him and to be disrespected like that. It’s so scary how little people value marriage these days.


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