Truthful/Tell All Tuesday; June 15, 2010

OK, Ladies it is Tuesday and time for all of us to expunge all the crapola on our minds..lighten our load by getting rid of all that Mommy guilt! Move back, I am really about to unload  and I don’t want any of you to get hit by all the shit that will be flying.
1) I really hate Mommy guilt. It is a useless emotion, it serves no purpose, and it only incurs more guilt. From the comments I received on my last post, I’d say I may have contributed to a few of you feeling some pangs of guilt. So, forgive me and don’t feel guilty about not getting that baby book up to date. Feel great that you are so engaged with your children that you have NO frigging time to sit on your ass and organize a baby book. You girls rock!
2) In the spirit of throwing the Mommy guilt out of the window, I HATE that I don’t take my kids outside nearly as much as I should because its too frigging hot. I know that is no excuse but I do make sure they are engaged and active. They have been working out with me. Plus, we still do fun stuff. For example, today we pitched a hello kitty tent, dressed in our finest dress up dresses, snacked on homemade granola and watched Shirley Temple’s “The Little Princess” ( yeah, I know it is as old as dirt but its wholesome and its based on one of my favorite books in the world..Sara Crewe!) The girls loved it. The only reason I feel any guilt at all about this staying indoors is because a nosy old neighbor came over the other day, introduced herself( yes, I had never met her before), and said ” Why don’t you have your girls outside that often?” As I found myself explaining that I don’t fancy letting a 3 & 5 year old loose in a yard unsupervised and I have things to do inside ( like clean, and work…I actually have a job online), I saw that disapproving look in her eyes and then she said. “Well, if they ever need to get out and play and you are BUSY ( I could so hear the implied too before the busy)….come get me. I can push them on the swing set.” Nice old lady? I think not.As if I am going to leave my girls outside under the supervision of some crazy old lady. Hey, being 100 isn’t a background check. I don’t know you! But she did leave me feeling like a complete shit. Here is an , albeit complete stranger, old lady chomping at the bit to push my kids on the swings and I am “too busy”. I felt like dirt.
3) I love when I get more followers and comments, it feels empowering and I feel like I am secretly moving towards my goal of being a published writer. SHhhhhh,lalallalala..I can’t hear you. I know you are thinking to yourself..it’s just a blog…get a grip! I know, but one has to start somewhere. Ponder this, the entity that is Dooce started with a blog.
4)I love my girls so much and worry on a daily basis that I a fucking them up. You know sort of like how a car starts depreciating the moment it leaves the lot..well, I feel like due to my inexperience, my kids are depreciating every second since they left the womb. Lord give me guidance and help me to keep them safe, healthy, and happy…..and to give them the world! No pressure or anything.
5)With full disclosure, I must add. I have been known to roar, complain,labor, on the fine points of Motherhood. For the last couple of weeks, some new power has come over me. I am not complaining, I’m just a little freaked out by it. I have actually found myself being able to remove myself from the moment, think, and then react. It’s quite amazing. I do, in that respect, feel like a much better Mommy. Remember, just last month I was roaring at the girls. The only thing is now..I’m waiting for my super power to leave and all hell to break loose!  No judging, Judgy McJudges. This is a place to get it out and get it off your chest. Not a place to be analyzed. Happy Mothering!

P.S. Did I forget to mention how awful I feel that I have clean laundry folded and stacked up to the ceiling( Not really, but it feels like it)! I swear I’d put it away…if there were any room left !! I feel like I am playing a losing game of musical laundry, every time I have people over I have to find somewhere to ‘hide’ the laundry. I have a play date tomorrow, guess Mommy’s closet will be bursting. Note to self, shut your bedroom door before company arrives.

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Comments (21)

It's too freaking hot to go outside. I lasted 15 minutes before I felt like I was going to suffocate.

I'm a very crabby mom today and I hate that.

I hear you on #2 and #4 and the PS. My clothes aren't folded though.

Love your truthful Tuesdays. So empowering. And a blog is as legitimate a form of writing as anything else – don't let anyone tell you otherwise!! And A Little Princess is one of my all time favorite books :).

Baby Boberg & Parents

I love it! Tell the neighbor lady to take a hike. Its frickin boiling outside. We made it out for half an hour before we melted to death. Shirley Temple sounds great to me!
BTW I'm your newest follower from follow me back tuesday!

Baby Boberg & Parents

I love it! Tell the neighbor lady to take a hike. Its frickin boiling outside. We made it out for half an hour before we melted to death. Shirley Temple sounds great to me!
BTW I'm your newest follower from follow me back tuesday!

Baby Boberg & Parents

I love it! Tell the neighbor lady to take a hike. Its frickin boiling outside. We made it out for half an hour before we melted to death. Shirley Temple sounds great to me!
BTW I'm your newest follower from follow me back tuesday!

Baby Boberg & Parents

I love it! Tell the neighbor lady to take a hike. Its frickin boiling outside. We made it out for half an hour before we melted to death. Shirley Temple sounds great to me!
BTW I'm your newest follower from follow me back tuesday!

Baby Boberg & Parents

I love it! Tell the neighbor lady to take a hike. Its frickin boiling outside. We made it out for half an hour before we melted to death. Shirley Temple sounds great to me!
BTW I'm your newest follower from follow me back tuesday!

Baby Boberg & Parents

I love it! Tell the neighbor lady to take a hike. Its frickin boiling outside. We made it out for half an hour before we melted to death. Shirley Temple sounds great to me!
BTW I'm your newest follower from follow me back tuesday!

Baby Boberg & Parents

I love it! Tell the neighbor lady to take a hike. Its frickin boiling outside. We made it out for half an hour before we melted to death. Shirley Temple sounds great to me!
BTW I'm your newest follower from follow me back tuesday!

Baby Boberg & Parents

I love it! Tell the neighbor lady to take a hike. Its frickin boiling outside. We made it out for half an hour before we melted to death. Shirley Temple sounds great to me!
BTW I'm your newest follower from follow me back tuesday!

Baby Boberg & Parents

I love it! Tell the neighbor lady to take a hike. Its frickin boiling outside. We made it out for half an hour before we melted to death. Shirley Temple sounds great to me!
BTW I'm your newest follower from follow me back tuesday!

Baby Boberg & Parents

I love it! Tell the neighbor lady to take a hike. Its frickin boiling outside. We made it out for half an hour before we melted to death. Shirley Temple sounds great to me!
BTW I'm your newest follower from follow me back tuesday!

Baby Boberg & Parents

I love it! Tell the neighbor lady to take a hike. Its frickin boiling outside. We made it out for half an hour before we melted to death. Shirley Temple sounds great to me!
BTW I'm your newest follower from follow me back tuesday!

Baby Boberg & Parents

I love it! Tell the neighbor lady to take a hike. Its frickin boiling outside. We made it out for half an hour before we melted to death. Shirley Temple sounds great to me!
BTW I'm your newest follower from follow me back tuesday!

Baby Boberg & Parents

I love it! Tell the neighbor lady to take a hike. Its frickin boiling outside. We made it out for half an hour before we melted to death. Shirley Temple sounds great to me!
BTW I'm your newest follower from follow me back tuesday!

Baby Boberg & Parents

I love it! Tell the neighbor lady to take a hike. Its frickin boiling outside. We made it out for half an hour before we melted to death. Shirley Temple sounds great to me!
BTW I'm your newest follower from follow me back tuesday!

Baby Boberg & Parents

I love it! Tell the neighbor lady to take a hike. Its frickin boiling outside. We made it out for half an hour before we melted to death. Shirley Temple sounds great to me!
BTW I'm your newest follower from follow me back tuesday!

Baby Boberg & Parents

I love it! Tell the neighbor lady to take a hike. Its frickin boiling outside. We made it out for half an hour before we melted to death. Shirley Temple sounds great to me!
BTW I'm your newest follower from follow me back tuesday!

Baby Boberg & Parents

I love it! Tell the neighbor lady to take a hike. Its frickin boiling outside. We made it out for half an hour before we melted to death. Shirley Temple sounds great to me!
BTW I'm your newest follower from follow me back tuesday!

Nyahaha, sounds like me, btw. thanks for following, visiting and following you back fr. FMBT have a nice day!

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