Sexual Abuse Between Preschoolers

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In Carson, California the unthinkable has happened, sexual abuse between preschoolers. A preschool is closing after parents found out that a 5-year-old female classmate allegedly had been sexually abusing some of her 4-year-old male classmates. It is sickening when you hear of an adult molesting a child but it is heartbreaking when you hear of a small child molesting other children.

Students in the preschool class at the First Lutheran Church of Carson School would engage in oral sex during naptime, in the tunnel slide on the playground and in an outside bathroom. What the fuck is going on?

No one was watching these children. The very thing we expect to be taking place when we leave our children in the care of preschool was not. When the kids were supposed to be napping, the aides ( who were left in charge by the teachers) would nap and the kids were molesting their classmates.

A lawsuit is being filed in Los Angeles County Superior Court against the school, the church, the principal, the teacher and an alleged child perpetrator.

Richard McCarthy, a father of one of the 4-year-old victims, says that his son often received oral sex from a 5-year-old girl at school. What the hell happened to this poor little girl that she not only knows what oral sex is but that she is performing oral sex on children smaller than her? My guess? Someone older than her has been abusing her and now she has become the abuser.

Much like these little boys who have experienced ejaculation and the sensation that comes with sexual arousal now know those feelings and will be seeking out those feelings of pleasure. Has she turned them into predators? This is the same thing these parents of the victims are wondering and are having a very hard time putting their children into other schools because they don’t want to be responsible for letting a predator loose on other small children. This is a repugnant circle of molestation.

These victims have been sexualized at such a young age, how do they recover and progress normally from here? We leave our children in these places( preschools, daycares, with sitters) and we try to choose wisely. We think that by choosing a parochial school these teachers and the people who work there are good people but that is not always the case. We expect them to pay attention to our children when they are in their care. How could this be going on for so long and no one knew anything?

I am so sickened by this case that I want to scream and pull my children out of school. Who can we trust? Nobody. Our job is to protect our children from all the pain and hurt and bad things of the world, but how can we protect them from those who we would expect to be innocent? We can’t be with our children 24 hours of the day, we do our best and we hope that others are doing their part to raise, care for and love their own children; that they are protecting their children and then when our guard is down, our children become victims of other victims. How do we protect them all from that?

I hope they catch the asshole who has molested this little girl and when they do, I hope they charge him or her with any charges of molestation brought up against this 5-year-old little girl victim who has become the predator.

What would you do if you found out there was sexual abuse between preschoolers going on at your child’s school?

 

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This is such sad news it is a shame what happened to this little girl that caused her to do with the other students in her school as well. My heart goes out to all the students. I hope they catch the person.

UGH. this has got to be in the top three sickening stories ever. I am so saddened that these children have been robbed of their innocence, and furious that these school attendants/teachers whatever were SLEEPING when this was happening. What is worse is that in most cases of abuse, the perpetrator is someone that the child knows. This story makes me want to cry and keep my child home at all times. I hope these children will get the help they need to not be forever hurt by these events.

HOW DARE YOU REFER TO THAT LITTLE GIRL AS A PREDATOR!

THERE IS NO DOUBT THAT WHAT SHE DID WAS WRONG…..BUT LABELING HER A PREDATOR?!? YOU SHOULD BE ASHAMED OF YOURSELF!

SHE IS 5 YEARS OLD AND OBVIOUSLY HAS BEEN ABUSED IN SOME WAY…..WHICH IS ALSO NOT HER FAULT!

THIS IS A PRESCHOOL…..NOT A HIGHSCHOOL. ALL IT TAKES AT THAT AGE IS ONE BAD EXAMPLE…..KIDS ARE LIKE SPONGES.

AND YOU MAM ARE SETTING THE WORST EXAMPLE I HAVE EVER SEEN FOR THEESE CHILDREN.

FIRST AND FOREMOST YOU ARE SLATHERING THEESE CHILDREN WITH SHAME….SHAME ABOUT THEIR BODIES, SHAME ABOUT THE NATURAL SEXUAL REACTIONS OF THE BODY AND SHAME OVER FINDING PLEASURE IN THOSE REACTIONS…….THE ACT BETWEEN PRE-SCHOOLERS DOES NOT AT ALL CARRY THE SAME DEPTH OF DARKNESS, SICKNESS, AND DECEPTION THAT COULD EVER BE ASSOCIATED WITH THAT OF A VERY REAL PREDATOR! THIS 5 YEAR OLD IS NOT A PREDATOR…..NOR DOES IT TURN THE 4 YEAR OLDS INTO POSSIBLE FUTURE PREDATORS!

SHAME ON YOU FOR YOUR IGNORANCE AND REFUSAL TO PROTECT THE CHILDREN FROM YOUR OWN OUTLANDISH FEARS IN ISSUING SUCH A STATEMENT!

IT IS A VIOLATION OF PERSONAL BOUNDARIES – FOR SURE – AND SHOULD BE TREATED AS SUCH – BUT LABELING THEESE SMALL INNOCENT CHILDREN WITH WORDS ONLY MEANT FOR THE SICKEST PEOPLE OF OUR SOCIETY IS DOWN RIGHT NEGLIGENCE AND ABUSE.

DO NOT FURTHER INJURE THEESE SMALL INNOCENT CHILDREN WITH YOUR WORDS. WORDS ARE POWERFUL!

IF YOU FEEL THE NEED TO SCREAM INJUSTICE – HOLD THE “SLEEPING” ADULTS RESPONSIBLE – POINT YOUR ANGER IN THE DIRECTION OF THOSE WHO WERE TRUELY IRRESPONSABLE….AND FULLY CAPABLE OF HOLDING SUCH RESPONSABILITY – NOT A 5 YEAR OLD GIRL WHO HAS MOST LIKELY BEEN VICTIMIZED HERSELF.

SIGNED – A SURVIVOR OF CHILDHOOD SEXUAL ABUSE – WHO HAS NEVER BEEN AND WILL NEVER BE A PREDATOR!

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